Saturday, August 22, 2015

Don't Starve Your Spouse Sexually

"Don't touch me jo, don't you know more than sex? The one we did last night is enough abeg, sex is not food".
Linda rolled over and faced the wall. It was not like she wasn't interested, she just wanted to punish her husband because he didn't give her the money she asked him for, she would continue to refuse him until he finally gets the message and gives her the money.
Victor also made up his mind not to ask Linda for sex again, she will be the one to come to him and he too would refuse her.
The bible says in 1 Corinthians 7:5 (NLT) Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won't be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Lovemaking is the holy communion of marriage. When a couple stops making love, it's the beginning of the end. The day your partner's body stops exciting you is the day the devil entered your home.
Lovemaking in marriage is not just an act, it's the pillar that preserves the institution.
When you make love to your husband, you must understand that it's his last resort, it's the only thing he cannot share with anyone. It's his most vulnerable moment, it's the only time he surrenders 100%.
Love making is not something that just happens; it starts with the mind and the deliberate investment of good feelings. You cannot call your husband / wife an idiot and expect him/ her to make love to you the next minute.
Sex relives tension in marriage , couples who have a lot of sex cannot stay angry at each other. Consciously create the atmosphere and time in your marriage. Don't be too busy that you don't have the time to make love.
When a man is denied sex at home, he begins to notice his secretary's nice shape and his colleagues' long legs. A man who is not sex starved will stay focused. Keep the devil out of your marriage, make love to your husband/wife.
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  1. Good morning sir. I just stumbked upon your blog this morning. I want to ask a question. When your husband refuses to sleep on the same bed with you and shows no intimacy with you pays you no attentiom and only seeks you out when he wants sex is it one's fault to refuse? It makes me feel used unloved and neglected.

    1. Thank you for your comment, please forgive me for responding late. I advise you should discuss with him if there are any issues. I believe that a good conversation and prayer will sort things out.

  2. saw this piece so wonderful Mr. Wale. want to know if you are same wale of ty danjuma foundation. when a woman refuses to sleep on the bed with a man for a period of 2 years. what do you think the man should do