Monday, August 24, 2015

Are You Dating A Married Man?

Hello sweetheart, you didn't come last night, I am angry o, is it because of your wife? Jennifer rolled her eyes and planted a kiss on Rotimi's lips. " I am sorry dear, she's beginning to suspect me" Rotimi said.
"Ehen so you are ashamed of me?" Jennifer feigned anger and backed Rotimi. She smiled to herself, she had him right where she wanted.
All these married men were just fools, she preferred them to single guys, they were so easy to deal with, all you had to do was make them feel guilty and they would give you anything. Rotimi was just one of four married men she was dating. When she finished her youth service, she would ditch all of them and find a rich, young man from a good family and she would settle down.
A year later, Jennifer completed her NYSC and started working at a bank. It was at the bank she met Victor. He was such a gentleman, very quiet and unassuming and of course he was rich.
They had a beautiful wedding and Jennifer was the envy of all her friends. She was so happy, she had it all, she and her husband would live happily ever after.
The night after their wedding, Victor was on the phone for 2 hours while she waited in her sexiest lingerie, he was laughing and smiling throughout and when she asked him, he said it was a business call, she didn't want to start doubting him so early in their marriage so she let it go.
She began to notice that something was wrong when her husband's driver thanked her for the food she always prepared for him. She was surprised because the food was meant for her husband. She decided to probe further and the driver informed her that Oga always ate the food prepared by his secretary Ekaette.
She felt like someone hit a hammer on her head and she decided to confront her husband when he came back from work. Victor did not deny his affair with his secretary, he looked at Jennifer straight in the eye and told her to respect herself as his wife.
He told her that he didn't marry his secretary because he loved Jennifer but his secretary Ekaette would always be a part of his life unless she decided to leave him and then he dropped the bombshell; Ekaette was pregnant.
Jennifer fainted but she was quickly revived. She weighed her options, if she decided to leave her husband, she had a lot to lose and that witch called Ekaette would become his wife, never! She would not let that happen. She would accept her fate.
The bible says in Galatians 6:7 (ESV) Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.
Are you a lady dating a married man or married men? You are creating the kind of future you want for your marriage. Always bear in mind that you will always reap more than you sow. Are you dating another woman's husband because he gives you money for clothes and phones and because you need to pay for your house rent?
It is better to use a Techno phone, wear second hand clothes and squat with a friend than to destroy your future. Go on your knees and ask God to help you then call off the relationship. God will reward you for doing the right thing. He is merciful to those who seek His mercy.
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  1. But there are so many ladies in this situation who never had relationships with any married man but their husbands are cheating on them in marriage.

    1. Thank you for your comment. I wrote another one for married men who cheat. If you scroll through, you will find it.