|Love of my life and the queen of my heart|
"See how fat you are, when I tell you to stop eating and take out time to exercise you will not listen now you are rolling around my house like a ball".
Kemi started crying as Segun stormed out of the house. She had been working hard to lose weight after she had their second baby but it had been in secret, she wanted to surprise her husband, she had always done everything to please him but it seemed like her best was never good enough for him these days.
Segun was a devoted christian and a successful businessman but after he fought his wife, business did not come in for a month, he began to pray and fast and God spoke to him to apologise to his wife. After he apologised to her, his business picked up again.
From that day, Segun treated his wife with utmost respect, Kemi also worked hard at herself because she now had her husband's support, she lost all the post baby weight and she's now more beautiful than ever.
Men, this may sound strange but the bible said in 1 Peter 3:7 (NLT) In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.
The bible has commanded us to honour our wives and treat them with respect. "Honor" is a powerful word, every time it is used in the Bible there has been a reward. Could it be that things are not running on rails for you because of how you treat your wife?
I want you to try something; ask your wife what it is that would make her very happy and then do it! It may cost you all the money in your account but honour her. Every attempt to honour your wife will be rewarded by God.
Your words are important to your wife, let her know she's beautiful, let her know she means the world to you, congratulate her and celebrate her. Let me share a powerful secret with you GOD WILL TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU TREAT YOUR WIFE! Don't ever forget that!
May God help us all in Jesus name.