"Where are you coming from at this time of the night? I knew it, you have gone to see that prostitute again, useless man, my God will punish you".
Raymond was perplexed, he had a long day at the office, all he needed was just to rest and now this woman he called his wife was on his case.
Truth be told, he had closed earlier but he decided to hang out a bit with Jane his secretary; they had been getting very close lately , she listened to all his troubles and advised him but there was nothing more. He also decided to hang out because he wanted his wife to be sleeping before he got home.
He couldn't remember why he married the woman in the first place, she was just a monster and a trouble maker. Raymond said to her, "Florence can you just relax, I simply had a long day at the office". Florence started screaming, " you are a liar! I called your office and they told me you left with that your tooth pick legged secretary, you better go back to her, you are not sleeping in this house tonight, go back to your prostitute".
Raymond didn't have any energy to fight, he simply picked his car keys and left. There was only one place he could go; he called Jane and asked for the favour of passing the night on her couch, she didn't mind, she was so caring, he felt like a king in her little apartment.
It was when she was trying to help him remove his tie that there lips brushed and thus began the affair between Raymond and Jane his secretary.
Dear wifey, the bible says in Proverbs 21:19 (NIV)Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.
There are 3 things that any husband cannot survive without; they are food, sex and peace of mind. If you decide to manipulate him with these 3, you will eventually push him into the hands of another woman. He could be a bishop and a powerful man of God but he is very vulnerable in these 3 areas.
Whatever it is that your husband has done, don't make the house an oven for him, let him know he can always come home no matter what. The moment a man feels he is not welcome at his own home, he looks for where he is respected and treated like a king even if that place is in the arms of another woman.
Pray for your husband and be a pillar in times of trials, your prayers can do a lot for him and your reaction to his weaknesses will let him know how much he can share with you without being judged. May God give our wives wisdom in Jesus name. Amen
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