If you nag and you always fight your man, it's just a matter of time before he goes to the desert; he will drink with friends till 2 am, he will party everyday but he will never come home. The desert is also another woman's arms.
The desert is a place of futility and barrenness but a man will rather stay there than live with a nagging and quarrelsome wife
You know why? There are 3 things a man values; they are sex, peace of mind and food; in that order.
A quarrelsome woman will turn these 3 into weapons of war and the moment a man cannot get any of the 3, he believes he is unwanted and begins to look for where he will get sex, peace of mind and food .
You may ask, what if I am giving my husband these 3 and he is still cheating? Report him to God and let your attitude be an example of a godly woman. A praying wife is a powerful woman, you have major influence with God.
Wives, let your husbands be happy to come home regardless of what he has done. May God help us all.
Jesus is Lord. Shalom