"Hey sugar" Linda hugged and kissed Femi on the cheek, she could feel his body temperature rise, she always had that effect on men. Femi was the man she wanted and it didn't matter that he had a girlfriend, she offered what no decent girl could offer; sex without commitment and sexual fantasies that lurk in the dark corners of men's hearts was her speciality. She would sleep with him anywhere, do a sex tape with him and even send nude photos to him.
It wasn't long before Femi left his praying Christian girlfriend for her, she was simply irresistible and she knew it. She started going to church because Femi was also a Christian although they were having pre marital sex, he would feel bad after each act but he couldn't just resist her, she was the devil he couldn't cast out.
One morning after a night of wild sex, she wore his shirt and curled up in his arms and then she asked "when are we getting married?" Femi stiffened and said "I will think about"
A few weeks later, Femi started dating another Christian sister, Linda didn't even bother to ask him because she was confident that no woman could snatch Femi from her. Femi would try to stay away for a couple of days but then Linda would send him a nude picture and he would ask her to come over.
A year went by and Femi told Linda that he had to move on and that he couldn't marry her, he was marrying another woman. Femi told her "we never defined the relationship it was just sex"
It was Femi's wedding and guests were seated, the pastor asked "if anyone has a reason why this marriage should not hold, speak up or forever hold your peace" just then Linda stood up with a bulging stomach, she was pregnant for Femi. The bride fainted and everyone went home disappointed.
I am talking to men this morning. You will come across some women in your life whose major weapon is sex, they will be willing to fulfill any sexual fantasy you can ever think of. I will discuss ways men can deal with these issues;
1. don't marry a woman whom you are not sexually attracted to or who doesn't get it or who will not want to learn how both of you can pleasure each other. A good wife should be the best of both worlds, she can be a prayer warrior, a virtuous woman and the sexiest thing alive. Pre marital sex is wrong but your conversation before you marry can reveal a lot.
2.Whatever makes you hot for another woman is what you should tell your wife, don't compare her but if red hair is what tickles you, tell her about it and a good woman would appreciate that and do what makes you happy.
3. Define the relationship: there was a time I used to drop a lady from church to the house, I asked her out but she said "no" but I continued dropping her at home after church. When I met my wife, I stopped but she began to tell people that we were dating and I dumped her.
If you are spending a lot of time with a woman you need to define the relationship. Let it be CLEAR!
Illicit sex is the number one destroyer of marriages and relationships. The bible says in Proverbs 7:26 (NLT) For she has been the ruin of many; many men have been her victims.
May God help us all in Jesus name.
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